About Copying Others
I think many of us, especially women, get this question from friends or people we know: I really like your shoes, where did you buy them? Or the same thing with a dress, troussers or even a coffee cup. And in a few days you see that person is wearing the same clothes. Copying dressing is not a bad thing, but the same clothes can look different on other people. Before we buy clothes we should find out our body type and to answer a few questions. Questions that I am asking myself before I buy it.
1. Do I want to feel comfortable?
2. Which body parts would I like to hide and which ones would I like to pop out?
3. Does it match with my body type?
4. Am I able to use it together with other clothes from my closet?
5. Shall I just leave because I don’t really need it?😂🤣
Clothes that you wear should make you feel comfortable and even happy, if after a few days you regret it, than don’t even buy, especially if you bought it just because it looks good on someone you know.
Now it comes to copying personality, you know that good friend of yours? The same joke can sound differently from others and it makes you wonder why no one laughs when you said it?
Back to Instagram, oh look, Laura went to Starbucks and posted smiling pictures, so you run to the same place and post similar pictures, hoping to get the same amount of likes and comments. But the thing is, Laura is being who she is and you are trying to be her. It doesn’t work this way. Maybe if you would try to be yourself things would change in a positive way for you. We shouldn’t copy others because we think that they are more cool and better than us. I gave just a simple example, but we can move to the office where there is this cool guy. Everyone seems to like him, but no one is noticing me. He just got sick and he won’t be back until next Tuesday so you are trying to take his place. You are trying to be funny, talkative, you even brought coffee for everyone, but you don’t get the same reaction. And I know why, because he is not trying to be someone else or to be funny, it’s just the way he is and people like it, he might have people who hate him as well, but you barely notice them, because you are to busy trying to be the same. You won’t be the same and don’t even waste your time. Try to be you, the best you can, and you will get your own circle. You will find people who will like you and you won’t need to pretend. You cant lie to yourself all your life and to pretend to be someone else. I used to copy outfits until I understood that it is better to develop my own style even if the dinner dress doesn’t match with sport shoes. But I found my own circle who don’t judge me for that, I have a friend who still tells me that pineapple doesn’t go on pizza. I hate heels, they are not comfy. Yes, it looks good when women dress in heels, but I think we all choose what is best for us. If you like pineapple on your pizza go with it. There are people who think that those sport shoes look really cool with my dress😁😂you know how I know? They started to do the same😁😂