About Couple Relationship

How can you trust someone, after being hurt, cheated and disappointed multiple times? For me is very difficult to start something new..

(ilona pulianauskaite)

О парах

Как можно доверять кому-то, после того, как тебя обидели, обманули и разочаровали несколько раз? Для меня очень сложно начать что-то новое..

(илона пулианаускайте)

A propos de la relation de couple

Comment pouvez-vous faire confiance à quelqu’un après avoir été blessé, trompé et déçu à plusieurs reprises? Pour moi, il est très difficile de commencer quelque chose de nouveau..

(ilona pulianauskaite)


86 thoughts on “About Couple Relationship

  1. Because somewhere, deep in your heart you know everyone is different. If you always do what you have always done, then you will get what you have always got. Life is a gamble and a game, if you don’t play then you can never triumph 😘

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  2. Trust and love yourself, first, always 🌸 Then, you’ll have the understanding of what’s acceptable, ok, and what you’re willing to deal with. You’ll understand what love feels like, and you won’t accept less from anyone.

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  3. What did all of those hurt you have in common- other than hurting you? Give that some thought, then stay far away from those character traits. We all tend to be attracted to the same kind of people and end up with the same problems. You seem to be a very sweet and genuine person, don’t settle for someone less than that. God bless.

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  4. I can understand the pain and fear that comes from that. I have had someone disappointment me greatly also. I look at it this way. Ask yourself this question. I can I live without the new person in my life? Even if it takes a while to completely trust them, the trust will return as will the faith over time and shared experiences. As someone has already said… Everyone is different. Don’t judge all by the actions of one. Whoever hurt you, must not have realized what a treasure they had in you. Give it a go… You live and you learn! Be Courageous!

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  5. Thank you for sharing!… 🙂 sometimes one must feel heartache so one knows the difference between love and trust and what we thought was love and trust.. in the end the heart will know, trust it.. 🙂

    “I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you can appreciate them when they’re right, you believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together”… Marilyn Monroe

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  6. since everyone should be different, the only constant is you as you might be making the same types of choices to cause you the harm. maybe, just thinking out loud here, it is time to look within yourself and try and see if you are doing this to yourself. which could be not realized until you evaluate you.

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  7. Yes it can… But they must also learn to trust. Especially if they too were hurt and disappointed once. You will need to grow together. Imagine though, the strength of that bond once created! Love is the greatest force we humans have to heal again!

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  8. People let you down, love doesn’t, be open always to love, don’t judge others by those you left behind because they had no conception of what they hurt and now they will rue that loss. Who knows what the next will do? But is it fair to judge and percieve them as possibly the same without good reason. Loves an adventurer and adventures are full of unknowns and mysteries. If you go in guarded then they don’t get the authentic you. If you are going in guarded, then don’t go in. You’re not ready or healed and maybe not strong enough. Just saying lol 🙂

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  9. I would say that right now don’t rush into things until you know that you are ready. Love and trust go together, you just cannot have one without the other. If you are unable to trust someone it’s better to stay out of the relationship, give yourself some time. There is nothing wrong with being single and on your own. When love comes, you will know and will be able to trust. Remember too, just because some lie, cheat or hurt, not all are like that. Anyone that would do that to you doesn’t have any idea of what he is losing. You are a wonderful woman, you deserve the best. Look for someone like you, who has the same passion, the same love, the same desires. I would like to say more but should probably stop. Hope your day is going well anyway!😃🌞💛😺

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      1. Well, I don’t know about that. But it is a good time to just take it easy and don’t get involved until you are ready to do so. But don’t give up, that’s what I did, never give up totally. But take it slow right now. Did you read my email?🙂🌞

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      2. Oops.😕 Sorry, didn’t mean to upset you.😀🙄 Anyway, that’s a good idea, focus on other goals at the moment, let things fall into place, sometimes it’s just better not to hurry at things. Otherwise, I hope your evening is going well. I’m tired and it isn’t even 3pm! It’s that negative talk that did it to me I’m sure.😁🌞

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      3. That meeting I had to go to today about finances, not mine, my friend. Didn’t go too well. We had to meet with another person about it. No matter how hard I tried to get them to see the positive in the financial statement, it just didn’t go over well, nothing but negative outlook about things. Now there will be another meeting and I have to go over things again. I didn’t even want to get started on this, now I’m stuck. Sorry, shouldn’t bother you with this I guess. Just got me down a bit right now. Wish I could be more helpful about your post, but sometimes it’s hard for me to type out what I want to say, just doesn’t end up sounding right. Oh well. Maybe I will try again later when my head is more clear again. I like the picture of Leya that you posted, can I use that in my next post about pets?😃🌞😺

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      1. I look in the mirror and I see such a sexy person I fall to the floor (not sure that is very normal) so it also happens to women when they see me, in my mind sometimes other times it happens.
        I´mmmmmm…..just sexy and I know it.

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  10. I am an old man that has been thru several marriages and many relationships. At first a cheater was eliminated immediately.
    A bit later if they came clean and did not lie about it, there would be a second chance. There is redemption for cheaters but not a liar and a cheat.
    Do not take cheating personal, the problem is with them and not you. It is hard to move on at times, but often it is the best thing. Someone worth your love and trust is waiting to meet you. You need to be ready for that person when the time comes.
    I had my best luck when not looking for someone and just enjoying life and being myself. Hope sharing this helps. 😉


  11. We can’t let one bad cherry ruin the other cherries in the bag. After trying one bad cherry, do we toss the rest away because they’re probably going to taste just like the bad one? No. Because we know that every cherry in the bag could be good. And if they’re sour, we move on to the next one. People are like cherries 🍒🍒🍒

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  12. Ouch that really sucks. Sowi dear, but welcome to the club. Worryless, membership is free and let’s drink to that 😣. Otherwise, let I know who the hell they are, and we hunt them down. 😨😑🤔

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  13. In the beginning of most relationships there is often the conversation about the ex. So in that casual conversation ask (him) how they left their last relationship? Was there a lot of heated exchange? Was there nothing said at all? Or was there gratitude expressed for time well spent? “How they leave their last relationship, is the quality of relationship they know how to give”.

    There are two kinds of people no matter what your relationship status is: some behave from “the married one”: in being settled and content, authentic, looking for ways to connect in deeper and more meaningful ways.
    While others respond from “the bachelor”: always searching not quite satisfied, shying away from commitment on any level, a challenge with owning responsibilities, makes excuses why it can’t happen, embraces the short-term.

    Beyond that there are two other kinds of people: Those who aren’t “in love” with women or men, they are just interested in their sex; they’re just interested in intercourse. These people are pretty easy to spot, because they’re phony about being interested in who you are. They’re more interested in: “come over to my place, we’ll get to know each other”. They’re more interested in what’s in your pants, then starting off as friends and finding what’s in your heart.
    It’s about learning how to read another person’s intentions.
    And then there are those who are fascinated in who you are. They don’t care what you decide to do, they just want to be with you in your company, and where they see sex as a bonus.
    Do they own their emotional issues, or do they dump them onto you, and make you responsible for their unhappiness? These are valid issues you want to be clear on, before saying “I do” on any level.

    Just a few ideas taken from my page on relationships.
    My blessings to you…

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      1. Cheating happens simply for the lack of communication. When couples stop talking about ongoing challenging issues; what we emotionally process throughout the day, nighttime dreams, hopes and goals, and instead often become lost in that daily routine. So dare to speak openly as you once did when you where friends.


  14. You have to think about yourself, but it can be hard especially getting into a new relationship because it plays on your mind. Putting yourself is important and you should take care of your thoughts. There’s this great inspirational chap… “W Mitchell” search for his story – it night help. Good luck🍀

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