What Does It Means To Be Yourself

We can hear very often, that people tells us, just be yourself, but what does it means to be you? I think it means to don’t get effected by environment, to don’t change your believes, because of other people, only by following our own path we can be who we really are.

(ilona pulianauskaite)

Что значит быть собой

Мы очень часто слышим, что люди говорят нам, просто будьте самим собой, но что это значит? Я думаю, что это значит не поддаваться влиянию окружающей среды, не менять свои убеждения из-за других людей, только следуя своим собственным путем, мы можем узнать, кто мы на самом деле.

(илона пулианаускайте)

Qu’est-ce que cela signifie d’être soi-même

Nous entendons très souvent que les gens nous disent: sois toi-même, mais que signifie être toi? Je pense que cela signifie ne pas être affecté par l’environnement, ne pas changer vos croyances, à cause des autres personnes, uniquement en suivant notre propre chemin, nous pouvons être ce que nous sommes vraiment.

(ilona pulianauskaite)


89 thoughts on “What Does It Means To Be Yourself

  1. Although i know what you are talking about and agree with it but here’s my two cents. If there are things about you that are negative then you do need to change. There is always room for learning.

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  2. SMiles hehe my Most Liked Blog Post
    on the Blogger Platform that Google
    Provides for Blogs was a Photo of me
    in my Underwear that Generated over
    400,000 Plus-ups according to the Software
    of Google Plus until it died but haha i think that’s totally ‘crazy’
    still don’t believe it.. it still brings tears of laughs to my eyes
    i was just
    silly and free..
    on the other hand
    i might write a Novel Long
    Poem in a Week over 40,000
    Words and over 300 Photos and just
    receive a handful of Likes butt true who
    is more fulfilled An Instagram Model with the
    Best Butt with 20 Million Followers and a Zillion
    Likes or the Person who searches deep within finds
    Heaven and reports it back all of it with no restraint..
    hmm.. true.. one may
    not often make
    A Penny or ever
    Gain A Big Target
    Audience by finding
    And reporting all of one’s
    Soul but as they say what does it
    Matter if you have A ‘Best’ Underwear
    Photo for a Fifty-Something Year-old Dude
    or a Twenty-Something Year-Old Model with the
    Best Butt Ever if you never find a date to even seek and
    and fill
    Your Soul
    up so Free With
    Joy and Dance to Bring
    And Sing.. true though it is
    rather fun not to be ashamed
    of all of who you are if someone
    likes it fine and if someone throws
    Tomatoes at you at most they are
    gonna get their Own Computer Screen Dirty hehe..
    Ya might be amazed at how angry it makes
    some people when they can’t find any
    from you..
    eventually they
    give up put their head down
    and walk away while i never give up..
    Smiling with Joy just offering my hand to shake with them
    or whatever they may like of what i bring to the Table of Plenty in Life..
    Haha and just to think in real flesh life most folks don’t even know i talk
    All they know me by is that guy who is everywhere it seems with dance
    Smiles my
    Friend the
    Role oF A
    Sacred Fool
    IS A Pinnacle
    of what i see as even Living
    True The Reward Is All in ALL Do NoW Be i AM..:)

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      1. True i have used about 170,000 Photos
        i have taken in the last 67 Months on
        my Entire Bible Poem Blog that Blog
        Post you were on was “Celebrating Yellow Boy’s Life”
        i actually linked my current Blog Post for you on my last
        comment for what happens is it’s easy to get lost on my
        Entire Blog for it goes like forever and ever and never seems
        to end so easy to miss the space between each blog post as
        they go forever and ever too.. haha as i kinda made it that way
        on Word Press on Purpose as it takes lots
        of time to do it
        and i would
        rather have
        People who wanna
        really be my friends
        than just folks trading
        Likes and that is okay too..
        it’s just that i always reciprocate
        no matter what like you and lord knows
        if i had as many Followers and Likers as you
        do or a real Job haha.. how could i possibly Dance
        40 Miles a Week and Write around 40,000 Words
        a Week and take even 400 Photos a Week as you still aren’t seeing nearly all of what i do as i do have 7 Blogs all together too.. with ever more smiles
        more smiles hehe..
        true though i always
        do put friends first no matter what..:)

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  3. It’s the Most amazing phenom.. i used to have Attention Deficit
    Disorder so Bad i couldn’t organize my thoughts or ever focus
    on doing just one thing.. but after i got so sick and separated
    All From Culture because the first 33 months of 66 Months
    in Hell on Earth before i could tolerate the Pain in my
    Eye to Write or Read anything i could not do
    anything at all with my eyes and ears
    without almost intolerable Pain..
    all i could do for 33 months
    after that is write from
    wake to sleep
    in a way
    to Meditate
    of Writing to Escape
    from Dentist Drill like Pain
    in my Right Eye and Ear that
    no Drug would touch Writing became
    Like Dance and Still is a Free Verse Ascending
    Transcending Activity where i escape all time and
    distance and space as illusion Laser FocuSinG in the
    Moment of what i do.. while the totals may seem Large
    for all of what i do each and every now i am in the Eternal
    Heaven Effortless in Flow even when i Leg Press 1340 LBS
    for 100 Seconds even though i am making sounds now like a
    Big Gorilla i am totally relaxed inside still as Heaven within now
    same stuff that sages of the ages have been speaking of around
    the World for Words and Languages different but Essence of Real
    Heaven that even Jesus as reported is always a Power uP of Pure
    Positivity Focusing Force Within to achieve so much Greater
    Human Potential that even the Christian Bible says in Verse
    14:12 of John that if you really have 100% Hope as Faith as
    Love Will come to Be Highest Force of Light of Human You
    too will
    do greater
    works of Light
    with Love as Jesus
    reported for those who
    Believed as he did the Force of Pure Love within
    the Light the Fearless Unconditional Love of Do anything
    Molding Reality as the Universe of Love You come to Co-Create
    with God but again this may be as simple as one word one step of
    Dance and Song Effortless to Play to come to be Now So Free Joyful
    to be NoW
    i am So Free..:)

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  4. You are absolutely right with your thoughts here Ilona! Over the years I have had so many people tell me I should do this or that, or act like this way, get a different job, and for awhile I tried doing these things but it never worked out, it just got me frustrated and I couldn’t enjoy anything. But then I decided to just be me, do what I felt I should be doing and things started going so much better. And I felt better and happy, and then my carpentry business began doing very well.😁 So how’s my new neighbor doing? For some reason I couldn’t get your pictures today.📷

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    1. Good, thank you, i just feel much better now, i told it will take longer from bronchitis, but seems i’m feeling really powerful, i didn’t took any pictures today also, had to do other things, what i couldn’t do few days ago, but good to be home finally and to answer to the comments, how was your day? 🤗

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      1. My day was good for the most part… It was milder today so I was outside a lot taking pictures of birds and trying to get them on my hand again. Some did come to my hand but I haven’t checked to really see how well they turned out. It always seems to look good on the camera but once I get them on my laptop then I can see problems with some. But I hope some will be good anyway. Even though it was nice out my left hand still got very cold and now it is shaky for some reason. Oh well, as long as the pictures are good. I tried to get Sir George and his mate but those 2 pictures didn’t turn out too well, they caught me by surprise and the camera wasn’t set right for them!

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      2. More pictures is always good, I’m trying to think of ways to change my blog a bit and have more pictures. Hard to imagine you could get better pictures, yours are always beautiful! I don’t know why I couldn’t get the two from today, even tried different ways to do it. Still no luck. Oh well, that’s me!

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      3. Considering how much technology hates me I think it would take a very long break! I’m still trying to find out how to get emojis to work on my laptop, I know it can be done and I follow directions and…it doesn’t work! But I will get it yet! I don’t give up. Easily. Well, maybe with some things I give up easily.

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      4. How to Get Emoji on Desktop
        Right-click a blank area of the Windows Taskbar, then choose “Toolbars” > “Touch Keyboard“.
        Select the Touch Keyboard icon in the taskbar.
        Choose the smiley key, located toward the lower left portion of the keyboard.
        Select the Emoji to type it in a field.
        I hope it will work🤗

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      5. You are welcome as i have time those days, i can try to help you to get emojis🤗at the worst if nothing will help, i send you all emojis on the comment, you can copy pasty from the comment and copy it on white paper blank and each time you can copy and paste from it, well, i hope we will find better solution, just in case😀😃😄😁😆😅😂🤣😍😌😉🙃🙂😇😊☺️🤑😘😗🤗🤓😙😚😎🤡🙃😜🤠😋😋😝😏😛😒😕😟😟😧😦🤥🤔🙄🤐😭🤜🙌👩🏃🏼‍♀️🐯🐱🐶🐨🙈🐣🐴🐜🕷🙉🐒🐰🐹🐮🦁🦁🙉🐷🐽🐽🐸🐻🦊🐰🐹🐹🐵🐤🐼🐗🦇🦉🦎🐂🐬🐡🐟🐠🦐🐊🐁🐁🐇🕊🐐🐏🐕🐕🐕🐓🐓🐆🐫🐪🐙🦑🐠🐖🐾🐲🍂🎋🎋🎋🌲🎄🌳🌴🌿🌿🌺🌈☃️⛄️🍈🍒🍑🍍🍠🌶🍞🥐🍖🥚🌶🍒🍐🍤🌯🍨🍿🍧🍩🍦🍰🍖🌮

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      6. Wehaa!😃 It works! Now why couldn’t I figure that out?🤔 You are fantastic! 💛 I’m stupid.🙄 Hope you don’t mind the heart. Thank you so much for helping me with this. One of those days for me. I should probably eat today too, maybe that would help! Somehow I don’t think so!

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  5. Everyone has their own identity. To identify and showcase it to the world, it just takes some time to find it within oneself.☺️ Taking others’ path can only make us live their life and even sometimes make us kill our own soul. Instead of walking and leading our life soulless, taking tough and mysterious path “all alone” will lead us to blissful sunshine. But often ,even without our knowledge, we get lost by looking at others. We eventually fall out of our own track and start running along with the flock.

    Dear Ilona, you have reminded all those of us who go out of track at some point to bounce back. ❤️Though you have made it short it reverberates my inner self and reminds me TO BE ME 😊 Thanks to you dear!!!

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