Which One Is The Right?

Did it ever happened to you, when you meet someone, you like how the person looks, you like to make jokes with each other, you have so much fun, your are physically attracted and is a big passion between both of you. But when it comes in to life you look in completely different way, when it comes to deeper talking, you don’t really understand each other, it seems not your soulmate.

With another person you feel good, you could talk all night until morning, keep having what to talk about, the person completes you, it makes your wings grow and release your soul from the heavy feelings, but when it comes to physical feelings you don’t feel like you are attracted to the person is no passion between you two. Don’t know about you, but for me it is difficult to find someone with the balance..

(ilona pulianauskaite)

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30 thoughts on “Which One Is The Right?

  1. I swam around in your words because they are so beautiful and true, but so incredibly difficult🦋
    I can feel these feelings and it’s like a roller coaster …and yes it happens to me now too, but I’ve found my “both” long ago and I feel lucky. One day you will find
    yours❤️
    Faith🦋

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      1. Thank you Ilona🦋You make me smile, I think we are all like that, if it’s typical ladies I don’t know, but I recognize what you’re writing. I don’t think you’re very difficult, it’s something you just think about yourself, but on the other side, maybe it is okei to be a little skeptical, I’m to much skeptical and there is no good either..🦋You and me, we are expert on overthinking I guess…
        🦋

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  2. Maybe there’s no right or wrong. And maybe we can have a great partner in both, or neither. I just think there’s no such thing as a soulmate, maybe the only soulmate there is for you is yourself and you just have to adjust your expectations when it comes to the right partner? Im looking forward to hearing your personal opinion about it🙂

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    1. I think the right is the same like perfect and perfect is fantasy, there is a person who is really funny and good and looks great and has big goals in life and big values in his life, but i feel i’m not sure, i feel is not my soulmate, i just think what if is not the right one? So i have possibility to be with this person, but I’m afraid, what if i break someones heart after few weeks of relation ship, if i find out, what is not actually going how i expected?

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  3. Friendship vs love is what you’re mentioning, no right and wrong, or friendship vs physical attraction or maybe lust, not a real love.
    The most powerful love is the one that combines both great talks and understanding in addition to the physical attraction, otherwise it remains a friendship. This is how I see things 🙂 Some people think it’s enough to just respect and understand each other’s I disagree. So it’s up to you what do you seek more in a partner, because sometimes it’s hard to find both
    Thank you for sharing 🙂

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  4. You heart knows the answer.. “You can talk with someone for years, everyday, and still, it won’t mean as much as what you can have when you sit in front of someone, not saying a word, yet you feel that person with your heart, you feel like you have known the person for forever “ (C. JoyBell C.)

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  5. Wow.. This Post of Yours on Soulmates is Truly Gold oh God Yes…
    And all the Comments are so full of Meaning and Purpose True…
    Soul Mates are those Beings we meet in Life that Lift us up that Bring
    New Light in Our Lives Never Seen before.. could be a Human that
    Brings Wisdom or even Affirms our existence to be.. could be
    a Cat like my Yellow Boy Wandering Feral from the
    Woods to teach me the Call of the Wild
    to Be Truly Free could just be someone
    who says thank you once
    when no one
    else seems
    to see you even
    exist.. there are so many
    Ways to Be a Soul Mate by
    God Even a Tree in Our Backyard
    will be a Soulmate Grounding Us back
    to Mother Nature so Free as Your Wings are
    Set Free from Worry Mind once again Soulmates
    are truly everyone even those who bring us darkness
    motivating greater change in Light for Us.. smiles my
    Friend the Challenge the Real Challenge of Life is to become
    Your own GreaTesT Soul Mate and then when You walk the Beaches
    naked alone in life you find you are one with all that is the Breath of God
    So Free to
    See more
    Colors of Life..
    Smiles my friend
    i am just as sexually attracted
    to my wife as the first day i met her..
    helps that she looks PRETTY much the
    same since 19 at almost 49 that’s Human
    Nature there is no escaping that attraction of
    reality.. she makes me feel loved without even
    saying a thing when i walk in my home you know
    that warm and comfy feeling when you pet Your Cat
    yes.. the oxytocin so free flowing all around does my Wife
    Understand my Deep thoughts Hell no not a damn thing..
    and she never
    gets jealous
    when i circle
    the Globe to express that
    Part of me that means nothing to her…
    People are different made of so many Parts
    we will likely never find a Soul Mate who will
    help us fulfill all of our Human Potentials.. smiles
    my friend in Metaphor that’s why God made more than Adam and Eve….
    How Beautiful Still Now
    it is to be for a World
    Filled with so much
    Diversity and Variety
    Where our Trees of Life
    And Love Continue to Grow and Evolve Soul..:)

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  6. Just never rush into a relationship, be careful and think it through. Just a physical attraction can fade away quickly, you want to be able to talk and share even deep thoughts as well. You are young and beautiful, you will know when the right man comes. The heart is the most important thing. Just my thoughts.😁

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  7. Relationships are like a piece of cake. The frosting on the cake is most attractive. But when we take a bite we then taste the cake. If the cake is dry the frosting loses its value and one is left disappointed. But if the cake is moist then the frosting has been validated. What it promised beneath was fulfilled.
    A person can be outwardly attractive. That is what draws people together. But, time and trial will reveal the depth of the person. And then one understands the substance and strength of the relationship. One can then answer the question: Does the product support the advertisement?
    -Alan

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