Would You Like If Someone Would Hate You?

Before we start to hate another person without particular reason, we should think first, if we would like if someone would hate us. How would we feel if someone will start to hate our children at school, bully them, until the words turns in to physical action, if we would like if someone would start to hate your husband on your wife, talk badly to them or even bit them up, just because of hate and jealousy?

In 21 century, i think we have to much negativity and hate with jealousy are playing big part in our life, we talk about kindness, goodness, forgives, but we don’t practise it in our life, maybe someone hate your father or your mother, just because your mother bought new car? Yes is possible and it is really happening, how many kids gets bully in school and bitten, where hate comes from, i think from environment and people who surround us AND FROM US AS WELL.

Before we start to be jealous we should think and ask ourselves, what if someone feels the same way about me or people who i love, before wishing bad luck to others, we shouldn’t forget, that is returns back 2 times stronger.

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142 thoughts on “Would You Like If Someone Would Hate You?

  1. While we can’t like everyone, there is no need to let that negativity fester and pollute their lives along with ours! Best to focus on ourselves and what we can do and control. Love the post!

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      1. I don’t believe hate is a solution, but it seems it needs to exist for love to exist. Some people are capable of letting go that hate towards others while some struggle with it (myself included). I think upbringing plays its part in how much hate you allow to exist in your life, but still those individuals can strive to change it once they realize where it is coming from.

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  2. hate is a very strong word for a very strong emotion. we may not like someone or something and it is not unusual to not like everything or everyone. i feel we use the words hate and love and perfect for the feelings of not liking, liking and something good. yes there is hate in this life and i feel it is because (in most cases) not based on personal experience or knowledge, but on what someone has been told by others and they follow along for fear of not being accepted. why must humans not like or hate when others do not agree with our view or how we live etc. we must feel they have to be just like us in every way. i feel the media also plays on these feelings by only or mostly report of the negativity in our world. i feel most humans want to hear, read about negative news and tire of nice news as it lacks interest.
    i dont feel anyone wants to be hated. and all to often reporting being hated or bullied goes unheard and it doesnt get the attention it needs to stop such actions.

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    1. Wow, thank you for such a menaingful words, yes hate is a strong word, the actions what hate brings as well, i think the same way about the media, you are very wise person, really liked your comment🌈🌸🙏❤️

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  3. i Guess (Feel) a key to Love what other wise might be perceived
    as Your Enemy as the Lovely Christian Religion Teaches
    so Great for those who Really Follow this teaching and even
    Turn the other Cheek in the Sense that they do not Escalate
    Con-Social Emotions through Fear And Anger and Hate and
    Eventually the Potential Contagious Virus of Aggression and
    Violence too is to do our best to Develop the Cognitive Empathy
    that if not for the Gift of our Nature and Nurture that we might
    Find ourselves in the similar Offender’s Shoes
    Bringing us the Empathy of Compassion
    that and who understands
    yes but by the Grace the
    Gift of Nature as God
    we too might
    Be in those
    Harder Ship Shoes..
    this Ocean of Life will
    Be a Beautiful Place of Love
    but only if we lift those up
    who are the Lowest out of Valleys
    to even up Our Mountains that may
    be so much Higher than the Valleys of
    others in Fear and all Negative Emotions
    that lead to Aggression and Violence and
    the overall State of Human Being Hate..
    hmm.. i go to the Big Dance Hall to
    Dance each week and every once in
    a while some very Drunk Dude will
    try to pick a fight with
    me like recently
    when a rather troubled
    Young Man didn’t like that
    i was dancing with 5 Pacific
    Islander Women.. he tried to physically
    Remove me from them and haha.. actually
    the Women ganged up on him and removed
    him from me.. anyway he came up again and
    started doing it again and i just smiled and reached
    out my Hand to Him of friendship and he put his head
    down and walked away.. i felt very sad for that Young Man
    And would have loved to help him find a better way but he
    decided to
    Walk away
    You can’t force
    someone to let you help them…. out…:)

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  4. i see the sticker
    tolerance
    and we in us
    are lead
    by the epitome of polarity
    there is no tolerance
    and the nerds
    are shooting back with real bullets
    cos they been bullied for too long!
    and the fetish movers
    like homosexuals and lesbians
    are pushing their sexual
    orientations down
    my throat with parades
    and flags
    well stop
    and not
    yet
    be
    alone by me
    see?

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      1. Thank you so much, before i was writing them in french and translating with google in english, but i decided to write directly in english, even if i do mistakes, i dont care a anymore, i noticed, that people like when is more simple🌸🤗☀️🌼🧘‍♀️🙏

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  5. People seem to hate so easily these days, and for such silly little things they will hate someone. It is so sad. I would not like if someone hated me and I don’t want to hate others. I can honestly say I do not hate anyone. Love does so much more, for others and for ourselves. And it’s true that the media certainly plays on negativity which just spreads hate. There are so many good news items out there that don’t get reported, but maybe if they did people would have a more positive outlook, thus, less hate. This is a very good post Ilona, thanks for sharing it today!

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      1. My day has started off good, just finished breakfast. Yesterday was a beautiful spring day, but today is cold and very windy once again. But it’s sunny and that for me makes a wonderful day!🌞😁

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      2. Yes, absolutely, and it isn’t hard to find something positive if we are willing to look for it. Even like yesterday I had a couple of things happen to me that many would complain about but I looked at it as something funny which I could write about in my blog yesterday. And there was more good things that happened, so it’s better to think about those things. Like Sir George coming back!😁🙌. I know, I’m crazy!

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      3. Some people have suggested that I should try selling my pictures, but I don’t know if they are really good enough for that. I value your opinion, do you think my pictures are good enough to sell?

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      4. First i tell you something else after i tell about picture i hope don’t mind, i believe, that a lot of times it happens not about quality, yes quality is important, but if you are good seller you could sell even rotten potatoes, in your case pictures are good, i really like them, you can even publish a book, i mean why not? You can always give a shot, for my black and white picture of New York, i paid 300 euros, but is inside the glass from both sides, it was only second picture what artist sold in a year, i was surprised when he told me this, because i really loved it, so GO FOR IT🤗

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      5. I like to go forward i have big force inside me maybe i’m skinny, but i have huge power inside me🤗my both parents are architects, they use to sleep only 4 hours per night many years and they just didn’t slow down, maybe is genetics? 😁

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      6. I started to draw when i was 12, particular pieces for architecture, they started to guide me, because yes you can learn it in university, but you have to be prepared much before, because other wise is just very difficult, and i really like it, its interesting🤗

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      7. That’s good! I also started to draw when I was about 12 and had considered studying to be an architect, but I was also interested in paleontology, so what to do? I became a carpenter!😂. But you have chosen well!😁

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  6. Don’t think I’ve ever hated anyone. I hate snakes. But I think that’s scripturaly (sp) acceptable. If Eve had hated snakes we’d never have had to get out and face this world we live in. Ever think of that?

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  7. Hi Ilona,
    Thanks so much for following me. I must say up front… I don’t make much sense some days. But such is my nature. I have read several of your posts and found them to be very up lifting and positive. It is such fun to read them. Please keep them coming. Try not to think to deeply about my post’s. I certainly don’t which why they come out like they do! 🙂

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  8. Hard truth… I believe current generation is filled with more jealousy compared to our parents generation..Kids these days gets too emotional and feel personal… Being at one place getting everything probably be one reason..

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  9. Thanks for sharing!… I am sure there are those in the universe that hate me and we have never met, but I do not concern myself with their thoughts, it is their burden to bare, not mine… 🙂

    “You wouldn’t worry so much about what others think of you if you realize how seldom they do”.. Eleanor Roosevelt

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  10. Sometime hard to change others but we could change ourselves. We need to know why other person doesn’t like us or why hate me?
    However, my rebellion mind says, this is other person’s problem why he or she hate me” 😀

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  11. If people took the time to know and understand other people better, there would be less hate. Often, when I think I don’t like someone, but then get to know them, I realize that I like them after all. Beautiful picture.

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