About Anger

DE44BB88-23DA-481D-80D0-800EBEEB4AC0Sometimes it happens, when i’m tired i’m avoiding to talk to people, or answering very shortly, maybe a bit angry, because i’m tired and i don’t want them to bother me with their questions, but why i’m being angry with other people, if is not their fault?

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85 thoughts on “About Anger

      1. Ask questions to yourself many and those one that related to your emotion. Did you expect something? Why? If you did, ask if someone else owed you something or should behave different way. Should they? Why? Or they not? May be they not and you just thought that they are. It’s is awesome technique that not everyone know but it is amazing if you learn it.

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      2. Or just simply say to yourself. I attracted this into my life experience. I don’t know why but there is always a reason. So thank you for the experience. Then let it go. This is easier way to overcome your negative emotions. 🌈🌈🌈

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  1. Yes, sometimes we get angry with others and yet they did nothing at all. I always try to remember that. Maybe I’m tired or not feeling well, better to stop and think and let people know we are tired or sick and we will get back with them later, rather than trying to bite their head off and they go away wondering what went wrong. I have been guilty of being angry with someone when it wasn’t their fault, it was me.

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      1. I think a strong cup of coffee will help with being tired, but the great feeling is just i feel so lucky, i just find out, that i dont need to do some exams because my grades are okay😄🤗feel released🌈🌸🤗♥️

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      2. I am a carpenter, so studied that and electrical, plumbing, that way I could build an entire house. Have also studied ornithology, and I have worked with the National Audubon Society in the US, plus with the Canadian Wildlife Service doing many bird and mammal studies. I like anything about the outdoors. 🌲 But with my regular job it meant working long hours, it was hard but I enjoyed it all!😁

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  2. You’re just a normal person, just like me and everyone else. And, it’s also normal to get angry and be emotional at times. Anger even comes more frequently when you reach the perimenopausal stage, where I am now. Sometimes, I don’t even understand why I get irritable.
    What’s important is that as soon as our anger subsides, we must apologize to the person who may have been slighted or offended by our action to maintain our relationship with them.
    We must be The Catalyst for a healthy and loving relationship with the people around us.
    Cheers!

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  3. Anger is an emotion like any other, emotions are ours to ‘control’. Ask Yourself why You are angry? Is it something You need to work on internally or is the other person ‘projecting’? If it is the latter, take a step back and see the situation for what it is, There is another person standing there going through their own emotional moment. All You can do is Be in the moment and show compassion, Love and kindness
    God bless Your beautiful day

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  4. eing angry is so normal, avoiding people is so normal when we’re angry…But when we are angry at others, when others make us angry…Here we should ask ourselves why they’re making us angry, psychology says because they reflect something we hate in ourselves, I know it sounds silly but you can Google it
    So best way when you’re angry, to do some activities or enjoy the nature until you feel good
    I’m speaking from experience; otherwise I would have been in jail 🙂

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      1. Yes when you’re angry , you can hurt people in many ways, once I hit another car because it refuses to move aside and other crazy stuff not proud of
        my pleasure always ❤

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      2. Weird you seem so calm and peaceful 😌 I would never imagine you have this issue, I’m struggling to control mine! Everything makes me angry sometimes, especially the chaos and lack of applicable laws, not my job to teach people manners but I find myself taking this upon my shoulders which is wrong
        You do meditation already and you workout so it should help a bit ❤️ I’m unable to even calm my mind for one minute

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      3. I’m trying to be calm and peaceful, doing a big effort, but i think even the most peaceful people in the world can get angry sometimes, i just hold to long inside me until i can’t anymore and after even 1 little drop and i’m exploding. Meditation and work out helps a lot, other wise i would lose control and when i lose control it scares me.. ❤️

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      4. Yes of course I understand what you mean, my advice don’t keep it inside so this little drop doesn’t make you explode..whenever you’re angry express, write, shout, do boxing (it’s great 🙂 ) trying hard to stay calm when we’re not is not healthy either, I usually cry when I’m so angry, I can’t help it but it’s a big relief to me…<3

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  5. most of us can relate…. Sometimes our mood doesn’t cooperate and we tend to get angry on people even when they have no part in it… Depends on mood all the time…..

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  6. Oops almost Skipped ‘Anger’ hehe.. in Fact Your
    Blog Post i guess that Like Button that is not on the
    top Left Hand Corner through me for a Loop of Change
    but truly in fact i almost always Skip Anger.. but if i ever
    Get it i let it all out in either Words of Poetry like i did with
    that AC/DC Song Highway to Hell Earlier in the Current Blog
    Post i was writing just for an exercise in fun in letting out
    a bit of Steam with even some Four Letter words that
    are not Love.. OR some kind of Free Dance
    but true i almost always get to Skip
    Anger as i was Loved so so much
    as a Child and where is there
    Room For Anger when
    you are just so filled filled
    up With Love yes the Neurohormone
    Oxytocin the Healing Force to be more
    Specific as released from Head to Toe in
    our Blood Stream too.. hmm.. it stands and
    Falls to reason that Children raised by Electronic
    Devices instead of hugs and kisses are gonna be a bit
    less resilient to the Potential Force of Fear and Anger
    as Lord Knows the Neurohormone Oxytocin from Hugs
    and Kisses of Love is the Perfect Perfect antidote to that
    Only Potential Pitfall is some folks will do almost anything
    to agree in Group Think of Agreeing with stuff they really don’t
    Believe in as Peer Group Pressure Just to avoid the Potential of
    getting outcast and losing that Soft Teddy Bear Affection of the
    Heart.. hmm.. true Dancing Solo Will be a way also to generate
    that Oxytocin Feeling inside and next thing you know and feel
    and yes and sense all the Anger will Resolve away and sooner
    than you know you will be reaching out even more with
    Hellos
    and
    Hugs
    for every
    stranger you see..
    hmm.. at least the
    ones who seem to have
    the Potential to be Nice!!..:)

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  7. we often “reflect” feelings of anger to others even if they are not the reason. as people get to know you, they may understand this happens or you can just say im not angry at you, you were just the person who caught it. if no sleep is the reason, then trying to get more sleep should help, right? its ok to explain your feelings/reasons to others.

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  8. I have lived thru 70 summers . Some of which i felt angerover stupid things that didnt matter. I dont know how many years or even days i might have left on this rock…but i can tell you i have learned ine very important aspect of life…nothing and i do mean absolutely zero…is what there is in this life of mine to be angry about. Oh sure in younger years when the macho blood ran high…but nowdays…i wish i had my present perception when my youth demaded i be the big rooster strutting around. Im sure i made a few people mad, but i guess thats what we do in youth. These days, i want to make as many friends all over the world that i can i give you all my hand and my true smile and my offer of friendship to anyone that asks. Give the world your true Smile…its the best part of your persoality

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